Dear Eric: I’m not close to my sister. Over the years, there has been very little contact, except when she needs money. She and two of her adult daughters have called asking for money, one asking more than once.

Can I tell her about the money, lack of caring about us or not? She used to ignore me, too. Dear Sister: It’s tricky when you want to set a boundary but to do so fully would involve putting someone else’s business in the street.

I’m not close to my sister. Over the years, there has been very little contact, except when she needs money. She and two of her adult daughters have called asking for money, one asking more than once.